Teenage Life

Exams going on, still feel like writing something. It’s been a long time since I blogged. This time I’m here with no game review but something on life of a common teenager in India.

It’s really weird how something you loved and cared about dearly suddenly doesn't mean anything to you at all. You don’t feel like talking about it. You don’t even feel like looking back into your past and thinking how it was. You just think that it was the past and your whole future is still ahead of you. How does this feeling come when you were this close to someone? The answer lies inside you. It’s just that you don’t know it. You just keep asking yourself this same question over and over again till you get an answer from yourself. People talk a lot, they like to put their noses in your life, spread rumors which even you don’t know about yourself. It’s really funny to even listen to something which you never ever did from people whom you rarely even know. How come they know so much about your life when even you don’t? That’s today’s world. People are so much busy interfering in other people’s life that they even forget what state they are in.

Yeah I’m an Indian, so what!! People are people…who cares whether they are Indians or Americans. I’m not comparing India’s culture with the USA but still just tell me one thing. You see a boy and a girl together somewhere, the only thing that pops into your head is that they’re a couple. You don’t even think once that they could be brothers and sisters or just good friends. This is typical Indian mentality. This is not it. Some people will even start rumors from just seeing them together …. Rumors that when those two get to know about this, they are so ashamed of themselves that they can’t even be good friends. They feel broken from the inside about their position in the society. They start thinking what others would be thinking about them and many times get depressed. Parents start giving restrictions to both of them. Both of them start losing touch and thus a good friendship comes to an end. If I ask the question, how did this happen? The answer takes us back to that time when someone just saw them “together”.

You might be thinking why I’m talking about all these. These are problems that normal teenagers face in India. Parents are afraid that their children might fall in wrong company and even do things that will harm their life. But even the teens need their space. No one cares about that in India. From our childhood we are taught not to talk to even strangers and when you grow up you are married to someone who is a complete stranger to you. And the best part!! You've no say to this.

You tell your parents that you’re in love with someone. They’ll freak out like anything. You’ll find very few families who will act normally to this statement. Love marriage is considered kind of like a crime in India by elders. Just tell me this, parents send their children to colleges and expect them to only study??? People who do only that have no life according to me. A boy and a girl going to the same college come in touch. They come into talking in general and get to know that both of them like each other’s company. What’s wrong in that!! Indian mentality is to take the Pledge very seriously “All Indians are my brothers and ‘sisters’”. Are you kidding me!! Two people going out is common in the USA but why people look at them with weird eyes when the same thing happens in India.

People need to change their mentality. I know our culture is different from the USA but can’t we just give the teenagers their space. I mean come on, it’s their life not someone else’s. Parents start asking questions as if they are interviewing the poor kid for a job. Hell he thinks even a job interview would be easier than this : P

Teenagers also shouldn't cross their limits and not break their parents’ trusts if they are given such freedom. I’m not saying that do whatever you want. Just make your life something worth living for and not be a bookworm and spend every second thinking about studies. Have fun in life, make friends, don't always go with the crowd, think different. Make your life something that when you look back after many years you'll proudly say that "Yeah, that's me!!".  After all, life is neither a trial run nor a simulation. Enjoy every moment and make your parents proud.

This was just a random thought that crossed my head. Jotted it down.